[ Lilith hurriedly passes most of their control back over with a mix of flustered embarrassment (hers) and amusement (snake's). this isn't the first time a situation like this has come up, but negotiating boundaries is always kind of awkward...

humming, definitely the Arbiter this time; there's a sort of drifty detachment to her tone that's pretty clearly distinguishable from her host. and then she pats him right between the horns ]

Now you are embarrassed ... ? It's charming.